2-Day Eros: After the Abyss Sanctuary Retreat in Da Nang, Vietnam

This is a one-of-a-kind, two-day immersion experience (in person at a private, secure sanctuary space in Da Nang, Vietnam,or online on Zoom in the safety and privacy of your own home).

This retreat is designed for couples who have walked through collapse, numbness, trauma, long-distance disconnection, emotional withdrawal, or seasons where intimacy felt impossible.

Where the body stopped responding.

Where touch felt overwhelming or unreachable.

Where the heart stayed loyal,

but the nervous system could no longer follow.

Where love remained —

but erotic life fell silent.

An immersive experience is the only way to do this work.

Because the body cannot rush its return to intimacy —

it must be invited gently, safely, with reverence and time.

Across two deeply-held days, you’ll experience a shift from:

shutdown → softening

numbness → sensation

avoidance → curiosity

fear → safety

distance → devotion

You will learn what it feels like to re-enter intimacy

not through pressure, expectation, or performance —

but through presence, attunement, grounding, and slow rebuilding.

This retreat supports you through the invisible patterns that keep couples stuck after deep rupture:

• Erotic numbness or shutdown

• Overwhelm or freeze during intimacy

• Fear of hurting or being hurt

• Shame around disconnection

• Hypervigilance or collapse

• Long gaps without touch or sexual contact

• Tenderness that exists emotionally but cannot yet express erotically

And beneath these layers you’ll rediscover something profound:

Your bodies have not forgotten each other —

they just need safety to return.

Here’s What’s In Store for You Both

A high-touch, slow, trauma-informed sanctuary

created specifically for couples healing from sexual disconnection.

No groups.

No observers.

Just the two of you — held with care, reverence, and the precise pacing your nervous systems require.

You will receive:

• Nervous system repair and grounding

• Trauma-informed erotic reawakening

• Practices that bridge shutdown, numbness, and overwhelm

• Somatic reconnection and co-regulation

• Sacred touch work designed for fear-sensitive systems

• Repair pathways for erotic rupture

• Emotional safety-building and attunement

• Deep presence practices that restore trust in the body

You’ll leave with:

• A felt sense of safety in your own body and in each other’s

• The beginning (or return) of subtle erotic sensation

• A restored foundation for intimacy that does not overwhelm

• Clear pathways for slow erotic rebuilding at home

• A renewed connection that feels gentle, tender, and alive

• The experience of being held through your return to each other — not rushed, not pushed, but honored

This work lands deeply for couples who have survived something hard together,

and who are ready for the kind of intimacy

that grows from healing, not from pressure.

A Few More Logistical Details

Hosted at a private, secure sanctuary space in Da Nang, Vietnam (preferred).

Or available via Zoom for remote couples.

Your experience includes:

• Two deep-dive days focused on trauma-informed erotic restoration

• A deluxe luxury one-bedroom suite (for in-person retreats)

• A comprehensive pre-immersion questionnaire exploring shutdown patterns, trauma history, nervous system tendencies, intimacy fears, and relational rhythms

• A welcome orientation call to prepare your systems before the immersion

• High-touch care, gentle luxury upgrades, and curated safety-centered experiences for your reconnection

Because your relationship deserves a space

where the body can return —

and love can be felt again in its fullest truth, not just remembered.